Bookmark and Share
Your E-mail:
Get the latest news, tips and
free advice every month
Cast Your Vote
Memorial Day Weekend is here! Will you spend some extra time with your cat:


Printer Friendly

The Hardest Part of Pet Sitting

Losing a beloved cat to age or illness never gets easy.

By Suzanne Stowe
Posted: March 23, 2010, 3 a.m. EST

Tuxedo cat
Boo Boo in her basket.
I love being a pet sitter. I get to take care of lots of different pets while providing a service to nice clients.  I tend to develop a strong bond with the animals I care for frequently, which makes it very hard for me when they become ill or pass on.

Since I’ve been pet sitting professionally for about five years now, I’ve seen quite a few pets in the final stages of their lives. I find it is more obvious with dogs when they aren’t feeling well or getting older. Cats are masters at hiding their illness but eventually even cats start to show their age.

I recently was notified that Samantha passed on. Samantha was a beautiful gray kitty who was about 20 when she passed. I cared for her many times, administering her thyroid medicine as well as love. She had arthritis and had difficulty getting around, but she always had a purr and a meow for me when I pet her.

Having lost my own cat, Meeser, to kidney disease, I can now spot the symptoms if I stay with a kitty for a few days. About a year ago, I noticed Boo Boo was demonstrating some of those symptoms including frequent drinking and urine that is copious and not in the typical little balls you find in clumping litter. 

I notified my client, Michelle, of my concerns, and she took Boo Boo to the vet for evaluation. Sure enough, she has kidney disease. Boo Boo is fighting it, but has definitely slowed down since the first time I met her.  However, I expect to be notified sometime in the next year that Boo Boo has passed.

You would think after going through this many times, with my own pets and with my clients, losing a pet would become easier for me. But it doesn’t. Each pet has a special place in my heart and I feel the loss when they cross over the Rainbow Bridge.

Read more of my blogs at Crazy for Cats.

Click here to read more Cat Blogs.

 Give us your opinion on
The Hardest Part of Pet Sitting

Submit a Comment   Join Club
Earn 1,000 points! What's this?
Reader Comments
How can it get any easier to lose a pet that you love than it is to lose a person that you care about. It's natural to grieve the loss of something so important as your pet, especially if your pet is a true member of your family. Grieving their loss, and remembering the good times, helps. I keep pictures around and have fond memories. I miss all of them - those that were old and my little two year old that died with HIP (an awful disease). I continue to miss them even though for Vic, it's been over ten years.
BJ, Phillips, ME
Posted: 3/25/2010 2:01:13 PM
I had 3 cats that all developed diabetes. My first cat came down with it first and lived to be 18 years old. Her diabetes was stabilized with just one shot of insulin a day. The second oldest cat had to be tested twice a day and administered insulin twice a day too. Since I needed to test his sugars twice a day, I couldn't go anywhere overnight without taking him, too. I felt very married to him. He eventually got ran over when he was 14 years old. We found him dead in the driveway. You could tell he was trying to get back to the back door. I felt very alone after he died and I missed him terribly. The youngest cat had already died and the oldest cat had died too. So I just had him left. I still miss him, but in all honesty, I don't miss having to test his blood sugars twice a day and feel married to him.
Cindy, Harrison, OH
Posted: 3/24/2010 6:13:51 PM
After a number of losses you can begin to prepare yourself, but even that doesn't help when they cross over, and I understand how you feel even when the animal doesn't live with you. I paint companion animal portraits and I always keep in touch with my subject's people, usually hearing of their passing, especially if it's imminent when we do the portrait. For each of my own losses, I've designed cards dedicated to their memory that I've sent out to friends, and now with the internet I compose my memorial on my blog and on my website.
Bernadette, Carnegie, PA
Posted: 3/24/2010 4:39:08 PM
Sorry about all the cats you have had pass on, i have a few cats right now but i hope they live to be very old and happy!
nikki, alamosa, CO
Posted: 3/24/2010 8:40:25 AM
View Current Comments

Name:
Address:
City:
State:
Zip Code:
Email:

Kittens USA
Buy Now
Cats USA
Buy Now
Cat Fancy
Buy Now
Become a fan of CatChannel on Facebook Follow CatChannel on Twitter
Get social and connect with CatChannel.



Hi my name's Winslow ♥ Boo Kitty Thank you for COTD

Visit the Photo Gallery to
cast your vote!