The Bad-Kitty Dilemma

What do we do when cats misbehave?

By Janiss Garza | Posted: April 28, 2014, 12 p.m. EDT

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We have two good cats – Sparkle and Boodie – and one cat who is utterly incorrigible: our tortoiseshell Binga. Many people who live with torties won't be surprised to hear this; tortoiseshell cats are known for having lots of attitude and getting into trouble. Binga fits the tortie stereotype perfectly. She goes after whatever she wants, whether she is supposed to have it or not. She jumps on the dining room table and kitchen counters in spite of our every attempt to discourage her. She is food-motivated and will steal from the other cats' dishes without a second thought. For many years, her favorite way to get my fiancé up in the morning was to claw the bed's box springs as loudly as possible (we're lucky she did not carry that habit over when we got a new bed). How do you discipline a cat who misbehaves so wantonly?

You don't.
Cats Behaving Badly
Binga loves cheese, but nobody likes a greedy grabber.

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Cats have no sense of right and wrong. They have needs, and they have wants – and they don't understand why they shouldn't go out and get them. Maybe they're hungry, or they want to stretch their limbs, or they want attention. They'll do whatever it takes to get that, whether it's breaking into the treat cabinet, or clawing the sofa, or knocking a knickknack off a shelf. They see no problem with this – it's merely the means to an end. If they've realized you don't like the behavior, it won't stop them, or if it does, it's only when you're around. If you're out, all bets are off. When you discipline a cat, they understand it as, "This person unreasonably takes offense," or worse, "This person is being mean!" In other words, you're the problem, not them.
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Binga is the resident "bad cat."

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Punishing cats is pointless at the very least and cruel at best. For a while when Binga was younger, my fiancé tried squirting her with a water bottle. The results were predictable. It only stopped her behavior temporarily, or stopped her when he was there to squirt her. He finally ended the squirt bottle wars when Binga was clawing the box springs on morning. He grabbed the water bottle and pointed it at her – and she cringed so pathetically that he put down the bottle and never picked it up again. It wasn't worth further damaging his relationship with her.
Cats Behaving Badly
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What works with misbehaving cats is a combination of positive reinforcement and removing temptation. A cat will keep doing something until she finds something more appealing to her. I found a beautiful, vintage look sofa that is covered in microfiber, a fabric that is nowhere near as appealing to scratch as the other, more appropriate scratchers I have throughout the house. If I don't want Binga on the kitchen counter, I make sure there is nothing up there that she wants (and that includes dirty dishes, which she loves to scrutinize for crumbs). Because it is impossible to keep her away from Sparkle when Sparkle is trying to eat, I make sure they are separated – one or the other is shut away in a room until Sparkle is done eating. But most importantly, I accept Binga for who she is and enjoy her mischievousness instead of condemning it. As someone who grew up loving punk rock, I have to admit I like her rebellious spirit.

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Ted    Las Vegas, NV

12/13/2014 10:40:10 AM

I'd never squirt water on my tortie. I have just let her destroy my sofa and easy chair for the past year. Nor would I EVER consider having her declawed. If I move again I'll just let my landlord have the furniture. I bought two different scratching posts (over 30 bucks) but she won't use them.

Elly    International

7/13/2014 5:48:36 AM

Completely agree, although Ocicats can be trained to respond to orders, but they are also very sensitive to scolding. It really hurts their feelings. Best to buy things that are cat proof and put away anything breakable that you are very attached to. On the other hand, the love that you get from your cats is well worth their trouble!

Pamela    Murray, KY

7/12/2014 8:03:07 AM

My cat eats the carpet where it joins the tile. In some spots he's eaten up to 5 inches back. This has been going kn for years and some day I'll replace it with wood but
In the meantime nothing has worked to deter him. If anyone knows of a solution to get him to stop, please let me know.

Jeanne    Brooklyn Park, MN

7/11/2014 12:24:12 PM

You have it right. Punishing a cat for perceived bad behavior, only makes it worse.I was asked by my vet, to take a cat, that clearly had been terrorized. H knew I've had many cats, all very happy and well behaved. So, I was given this sweet cream point, shaved because she was so matted. Obviously no-one even tried to groom her. Very overweight. Shy, but loveable. Se's gone from cringing when I would bend over to pet her, to asking to be petted. She's on a strict diet. Yes, she'll try to sneak from the other cats' (a dainty tabby) dish, but all I have to do is call her name, and she stops and goes to her own dish. As you say, positive reinforcement. We are still testing each other out. Once, she got on top of a china hutch, and when I went over, she cringed down. When I just petted her, It was like a big deep sigh. I think I'm going to have a lovely, happy cat. Too bad her first owners didn't try a little better.

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