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Behaviorist Lists Signs of Feline Affection

Jackson Galaxy, a cat behaviorist, describes the ways cats show love for their owners.

Feline behaviorist Jackson Galaxy gives some signs that show a cat's affection for you
Your cat shows its love for you with physical forms of affection such as rubbing up against you or grooming you.
A lick on your cheek, a rub against your ankle, a slow, soft blink … these are just a few of the ways your cat tells you it loves you, according to Jackson Galaxy, a cat behaviorist based in Redondo Beach, Calif. Galaxy shared the seven signs of feline affection with Darcy Lockman of Studio One Networks.

1. Grooming: If your cat licks you, it’s a sign of affection, Galaxy says. After all, grooming is one of the first affectionate experiences kittens have. “Littermates, as they grow older, if they’re adopted together, will groom each other for life,” Galaxy says.

2. Purring: Your cat purrs in your presence because it feels cared for by you, Galaxy explains. Because of its experiences as a kitten, your cat associates purring with a feeling of satisfaction.

3. Rubbing: To show affection to other cats, dogs and humans, your cat will rub against them, or will knead its paws on them. “When your cat puts its scent on you, it’s saying something like, ‘You and I belong together…,’” Galaxy says. “It’s a scent compliment.”

4. Mock Spraying: To claim you as his own, your male cat might back up toward you with a quivering tail without producing a spray — a sign he wants to mark you.

5. Gumming: In another attempt to mark you as private territory, your cat might rub its gums on you, again blending its scent with yours.

6. Blinking: When your cat catches your eye from across the room and slowly blinks, return the gesture. “It’s actually a sign of trust, like showing you its belly,” Galaxy says. “It’s a form of communication I know works. Do it a few times with your own cat. It will begin returning it to you.”

7. Gifting: A favorite toy dropped at your feet or a dead mouse left on your doorstep signify your cat’s trust in you, Galaxy says. “When a cat brings a dead mouse home, it’s saying, ‘I bring this thing to my safe place,’” Galaxy explains. “It’s more a demonstration that your cat feels supremely safe in the home you share.”

When your cat shows these signs of affection, Galaxy suggested you return the favor. That way, your cat will know you feel the same way.

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Posted: February 6th, 2008 at 5 a.m. EST

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I have a 5 yr old nuetered male Ragdoll who I have had since he was a kitten. About a year ago he started a really wierd behavior. He started spraying me while sleeping in the middle of the night. I would wake up to the feeling of him spraying me on the back of my neck. the same place three different times. He is no longer allowed to sleep with me at night. He did it again a week ago. Why is he doing this??? I have had cats my whole life and have never experienced this. Please help!
Razz Bomar, Windsor, CA
Posted: 8/1/2011 2:40:04 PM
I have three cats all rescued by myself. Peter I found someone trying to drown him. He was the runt of a litter, and my two girls Phebie and Phelie I found dumped in a cardboard box on the motor way.

My male is about six years (human years) older than the girls, but he treats them with lots of love and fuss. Grooming them and on the odd occasion when he's in a mood, tells them off lol..

He is also the reason I am here today telling you about them. Seven years ago there was a fire in my house, and my alarm didn't go off. An energy efficient bulb had melted in the socket and dripped hot plastic and molten glass onto the floor. I was fast asleep. And Peter instead of leaving through the cat flap to safety, came up through the smoke and flames and woke me up. He came and howled at me before running back down the stairs, waiting at the bottom and on realising I wasn't coming came back and repeated this several times until I fully woke up and realised what was happening.

The fire brigade wanted to put him forward for an award, but it never came about. I owe him my life! He's very protective of me, and five years ago alerted me to a burglar that had attempted to brake into a house a few doors away. And was now hiding in my garden from the police. Knowing he shouldn't be there he did the same as he did with the fire running up and down the stairs howling, until I followed him into the lounge and look to see what he was looking at out side the window. Thank you Peter, my little fury guardian angle. xx
Linda, FALMOUTH, England, ID
Posted: 1/31/2011 2:28:33 PM
I have eight cats, all foundlings,each is loving and unique. Erl is my very social cat and loves all visiters. He has won many a "cat hater" over so I guess he is a diplomate! All of my cats love to sit on my lap and many times I have three or four at a time one on my lap, one on my legs, one on shoulder etc. I call it my cat quilt.
Shirley, Addison, NY
Posted: 1/26/2010 9:16:24 PM
I have a love hate relationship with my cat. His name is Bear. He does ALL of this plus more. When I leave he yowls and yowls for hours until finally waiting at the top of the stairs for me. When I come home from work he's at the door in seconds. But he also loves to smother me in my sleep... I'll have dreams of suffocating, only to wake up to find my face in his furry cat chest. Or I'll be laying in bed with my laptop, like now, and he'll sit on my chest and put his face directly in front of mine until I pay attention to him. Cats are amazing creatures, they're just like dogs (perhaps even better!) and they have such odd personalities. They're just the best :)
Audrey, Wasilla, AK
Posted: 1/23/2010 11:21:34 PM
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